There’s no doubt about it; after doing everything in your power to save your relationship, it is an emotional blow to know that it was not savable, for all other reasons other than you were not enough!
At the very least, if you are ending a relationship that includes children, you will need to find a way to be a team for your children, so that you can create a continued loving and safe haven in which they can thrive.
I will support your healing and help you rebuild your vision about what is best for you. If you have children, I will help you work together for the sake of your children as you move forward designing a new life as co-parents.
I will help you understand your role that led to the end of the relationship and to find the lessons that you can take with you in future relationships.
You will be okay, and in fact, you can thrive. I’ll be here to help you believe in you until you can believe in yourself.
Write or text me, so that we can set up our FREE INITIAL appointment. Haven't you waited long enough?
What my clients say
"Barbara counseled my husband and I as our marriage was in unbelievably bad shape. She gave us the skills and tools to communicate better. We now understand each other's communication style and can constructively work through conflict when or if it arises. We are incredibly happy in our marriage now and I am so glad we decided to work with Barb! Overall, I cannot speak more highly of Barbara, she is the best and I cannot thank her enough."
"Just started with Barb. I appreciate her demeanor and wisdom. She feels like a loving and wise Aunt. She listens and offers great feedback. She truly seems to care. I am looking forward to working with her to continue creating a better life for me and my family."
"Barbara is thoughtful, smart, and a great listener. She summarizes my thoughts concisely and offers practical solutions as well as ways to reframe my thought process. Highly recommend."
"She always checks in with me even when it's not a session. I feel really confident in going forward because of that and that's something new when it comes to counseling. Even though I just started, I feel that counseling is something I'm really going to stick to this time because of Barbara."
"She is great! She is an amazing partner to have for this journey!"